This Walking Meditation Will Change How You See Success

Skillionaires Igor Sivovv

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A very warm welcome here to the podcast of Skillionaire. This podcast is about stories that stick and strategies that scale. I have today a very good guest that talks about another form of transformation, another form of scaling.

For him, business is not only scaling after strategies, sometimes it is more than that, real implementation and alignment. And on that note, I'm happy to welcome Igor Sivyov today in the podcast. I'm happy to have you here and I had the pleasure to be, I'm going to tell later on a little bit more about my own experiences with you.

But now I would like to know if nobody ever met you before, who you would and how you would introduce yourself. And first, thank you very much for invitation to your podcast studio. And, you know, introduction of ourself is one of the important things in our life.

And I have a lot of clients around all over the world with whom I work according introduction. And I want to tell you that each way, each situation is different. And introduction is always different.

For example, if you in podcast, it's one way. If you, for example, in the group of your parents, of your kid, you can introduce yourself in a different way. Yes, if you're with a business structure, with the business people, you will introduce, you can feel how you can be useful for them.

So here I can introduce you that I'm Igor Sivyov. I'm 45 years old. I'm a life coach.

I am a father of the four kids. Wow. I adored that.

And I got to know them. Some of them, I think. Yeah.

You know, one of them. So I have my very popular walking meditation around all over the world. More than a thousand people go through that meditation.

I work with the people to help them to open their hearts for themselves and to help them to open their way, to open their door. Some people call me a person who gives the key. I'm the key man.

Ah, very good. And a lot of people, like maybe the last, maybe one and a half year, my client become call me like key man. Because when I began 10 years ago, on my way with a psychologist and everything, because I'm also the magister of psychoanalysis, and I'm trying to be very useful for the people.

I'm trying like to push them. You need to see. You need to go there.

This is your future. This is the bright future. And then my mentor told me, you go, don't push the people.

You just need to give them the skill to show them, to switch on the light. And if they see, they can go into the door. If not, you are not the God.

Yes. Oh, that's so powerful. Yes.

Don't take the role of the God. I say, oh, God, thank you. I'm not the God.

Also, I'm like a person who can give you the key, who can switch on your light. And I can also only tell, look, can you see on a different way? Look here. This is the door.

This is the key. The key. This is the new skill.

You can use it. I'm here. I'm not far.

I will help you. Don't be afraid. That is so powerful.

Thank you for this introduction. I tell you also why I think this is so powerful, because it resonates so much with me. Five years ago, when I was 45, I was actually in the same shoes where I started to make people successful, want them to be successful.

And if they were not yet on the way where they are supposed to receive, be able to receive what they wanted to hold, I was pushing them so much. And with that behavior, I pushed people also away from me. So it's a very important skill.

We're going to talk a little bit more about that. Tell me a little bit about your walking meditation journey. When you started to feel helping other people where yourself had actually discovered there was a need of letting also something go.

Tell me. I think it was maybe nearly six, five, six years ago. And on the same time, I have my first walking meditation with Jodie Spencer on his retreat in Turkey.

And it was in the four a.m. in the morning. It was the first my walking meditation. And Jodie Spencer create a great product, especially with the meditations.

And that meditation is was about your future. But when we think about the future, we just think that something should happen. Some someone we don't know when.

And when you work with the scientists and we work with your mind, you clearly began to understand when you think about your future, which is not exist. Mm hmm. It means there is all your thoughts, all your like dreams.

They go like from nowhere because the future is not exist. I have one very beautiful explanation about the life. Yesterday is a history.

Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. Yes.

And on that walking meditation, the main thing what you need to understand and to feel when you open your eyes and you begin to walk with the music, with the sound, with everything, you need to feel the person who you are on your future, the person who who already have everything what you dreamed before. Who is that person? You need to feel it now, not tomorrow, not from one year now. And on that meditation with Joe Dispenza, when I felt myself the first time, where am I in the future? It was it was unbelievable.

I can't explain it in the words. So I was like a flying or I think I was like up on it was on the beach. I was like up on the beach.

I was like walking. I didn't feel the ground. And then after that, Joe Dispenza came to me.

He's personal. And because a lot of people, all of people, they go to have a breakfast. And after that meditation, I thought it's better to go to the hall to the room where was retreat.

And I was walking alone. And I've heard that a golf car was like behind me and stopped. And as I've heard the signal, it's like go in a different way.

And I turned around and saw like Joe Dispenza go out from golf car, came to me and asked me, look, what is your name? Oh, Igor. And he told me, you know, I'm like working huge amount of years. And I've never seen before when the person like was flying without touching the ground.

Wow. Yeah. And we spoke with him like maybe seven, 10 minutes.

And I told him that on that moment was chosen everything in my mind, not life in my life. It's only now. And from that moment, everything around me and inside me became changing.

And on that period, I understood that I have something very clear in my mind. I need to share about that and began to share with the people. Because for me, it's very easy to feel a person.

Very easy. And for me, it's most important not to tell the person what I feel about him. Yes.

Tomorrow or after tomorrow, I feel everything. But I can't tell him. I can't.

Because if I will tell a person, his mind will build the future from my words. It's not working on that. It's work only when the person go through his steps, feel himself and make his own decision.

And only what I can do. It's like, you know, with the kid, when you read the kid the book, you know, already the finish of the story, but you don't tell the kid. Yes, you see his reaction.

You speak with him. Yeah, but you already know what the fairy tales will end. Yes.

This is the same. When I work with a client, I already know from that reality what will happen then. But I can't tell him.

Yeah, that's very protective. Yeah. It's very protective to allow also your clients to discover their own journey.

So what you actually let go is the planning and the future, but actually bending time somehow that you saw yourself in the future and know what steps are ready to take in the presence to have a successful your own journey, your own journey needs to be successful. And that's what was then actually in that very moment with Jodie Spencer. Yeah.

It was started from that period with him. OK, that's very good. Now, I wanted to get here to your next step, because we are so about picking your brain.

And later on, we're going to start how you bring the effect of successful entrepreneurship, maybe or life to other people. But stay in this moment and you met Jodie Spencer. And until now, what did you execute it right away? You know, it was like a huge, interesting book.

So when you began to feel yourself like who you are, of course, something you don't feel it in material world, but you feel it. And on that moment around you, new people, new mentors, new coaches, new books, new information, new knowledges is just come to you. And then all everything what you need is to use it.

Because a lot of people, they have information, they have knowledges, they read book, they go to the transformation work class, different things, but they don't use that. Mm hmm. So they have it on their pockets again, but on the back, but they don't use it.

So it's easier for them to live in the previous day. So, for example, when we woke up, we wake up in the morning, we are the same person, which was yesterday in the morning, the same. If you, for example, during the day, you have some knowledges.

For example, we met with you, with a gladiator, Simon, yeah. And there was a lot of people, they take information. And for example, during the day, when the person take information and the next morning he wake up and he didn't use anything from yesterday, the mind will burn out.

It's deleted. Yes. It's don't use it.

Because if you don't need it in your life, I will delete it. So from that moment, from Joe Dispenza, I've learned a lot from what I know, what I take from my coaches, from my mentors, from the people I need to make it every day. For example, with Joe Dispenza, he has like online course also where he ask people, please, from that day began to brush your teeth from the different hand.

So I was brushing my teeth before with my right hand. So I take it on the left hand and it should be 60 days. So the first two, three days, it's very uncomfortable.

Your mind, you know, what are you doing? You can make it with your right hand. What for you use the left hand? It's very uncomfortable. It's uncleaning.

Please stop it. Yeah. In the first two, three, four days, I'm continue, continue, continue, continue.

So the 60 days was the end. And a lot of the group people, they began right on the chart. Oh, my God, this is 60 days off.

I will take my brush to my hand again. And I ask myself, Igor, this is the real what you want to back from the 60 days? Or you can continue? I continued and never changed. Never.

Until now, I brush my teeth with the left hand. It's more than five years. I've never back to my right.

Interesting. And that's such a good analogy to actually moving forward, to developing and use the skills that you're gaining. Very good.

You have a particular word for all of this. It comes from Russian language. You need to help me because I would have to.

And explain me what is behind that. So it means when you can show yourself to that world. But a lot of people think that to show yourself to that world, it can be from the Instagram, from the YouTube channel, from the stage, from the booth and etc.

I try to explain people that you can show yourself to that world from your action in your day, not only for the people. This is it can be. But if you can show the world yourself in the morning, what does it mean? For example, you can wake up on the 30 minutes earlier than before.

It means then you show yourself who you are, show the world who you are. If you begin to read the new book, you open yourself. And this is like about you.

What can you do to yourself, not for the people only? Because a lot of like a lot of my clients come to me and ask, Igor, please help me to make more visible to that world. I say, OK, and it's your visualization. Are you visible for yourself? What do you mean? I told, I mean, what do I do in what do you do in the morning? Just wake up, take the coffee and run.

It's not visible. You're in the box. If you want to be visible for the world, you mean you need to be visible for yourself from the action to yourself.

You don't need one million followers. You don't need YouTube channel. No, it can be.

But this is not the main. They mean then you are visible from yourself. Then you understand.

And I wake up like at five o'clock. I make my meditation. I read the book.

I'm walking. I'm running. I'm drinking water.

Yes. I'm like setting myself because, for example, a lot of people now very, I think, very modern worlds, very popular world, like biohacking. I told about that on my stage, biohacking.

Tell us about that. And when I met these people, they spoke with me and they describe what they do. And they also use we hacking, we hacking, we hacking.

And then I ask myself, oh, is that like good, good opportunity to hack yourself? For what? Ever you explained that. I was like, yeah, he's so right. Because the God create us not to hack ourselves.

And biohacking, it means we don't like our body. We don't like ourselves. We don't like our soul.

We don't like and we don't like it. We want to hack. Hack system.

Yes. In our life, for example, hackers, the hack system. So they like push you.

Yeah. They break something. Why do you want to break you in the morning? When you wake up and like, oh, well, I am a biohacker.

So you want to hack yourself. You want to destroy something in you. And then I began to use biosetting.

Yeah. When you set, you just setting yourself during the all day in the morning. When you wake up, you don't hack yourself.

Yeah. Yeah. You don't destroy yourself.

You don't fight with yourself. You just set, setting, setting, setting, setting. And then you already go to the world to be visible to the world.

Now, before you visible for yourself and then you visible to the world. A lot of people, they want to be visible to the world from the millions of viewers and so on, but they don't visible from themselves. I feel I can have this conversation for a whole long day together with you.

But as I always listen to when I attend, like, for example, the Gladiator Summit, I picked this up as a very big point to bioset yourself, not to biohack yourself. And every everybody I come across to say, I'm not biohacking, I'm biosetting. I make a really big impact on there.

I was like, OK, I need to thank you for that one. But, you know, also, I wanted to come back. What profound words did you say that people wanted to be seen, you know, but are they seen by themselves? And just yesterday, somebody came across where there was an interaction.

I need somebody. I need somebody to fulfill myself, to make myself complete. That was actually the right explanation of this person.

And I think this is the wrong setting. You need to first be responsible for yourself, complete yourself before you bring somebody else in the game. And I think also for my life, this has been the biggest, biggest lesson to let go things that we think to be responsible for, including our children.

I'm not letting I'm not saying to, you know, abandon them. But especially as it is in mothers, they are in business. They abandon themselves so much until they realize what and how long they have left themselves alone before they take care.

And that is totally not a good role model. And that is something that I discovered on myself for on a very big journey. When I came four years ago to Dubai, because I said all the time I have to work because I'm the only provider for my children.

That was such a big excuse. That was such a big excuse. And so my own children rubbed it into my face until I learned that I am I am there to care for myself.

And that is such a big responsibility towards your children. And I'm glad you have the same mindset. Thank you for showcasing.

And I think this is also a situation where a lot of people get their success turbidized. Could it be? What do you see in owners, business owners, businesspersons, CEOs, entrepreneurs and all this all these people that you're working with? What did you what do you see is their biggest shifting point? Is that to watch yourself? One of the most big challenges on the life of the people who like in the big success like they think this is they don't feel any motivation. So before it was motivated, for example, the money.

I want to make one hundred thousand. I want to make one million. I want to make one billion, one hundred millions and so on.

Then it increase, increase, increase. But the space for the visible themselves is become less and less. So they create business, they create great things, really.

But on that way, they do not have any minute for themselves and they like lose control about themselves. And there is not any motivation because they have everything what they want. I don't know cars, buildings, you know, things, flights, travels.

But during one year they want to find something, you know, Alan Peace. Alan Peace is one of the greatest author in the planet. He has 18 bestsellers books and he was one of my favorite writer.

And two and a half years ago he came to me to Dubai. And we were creating with him together a special workshop for whole day. Me and Alan Peace.

And on the end of the day, he asked all people, if you want to ask me the question, please, yes, you can ask. And my son, you saw him, Miron. And I didn't know about that he has in his mind.

So he went to the microphone and asked Alan Peace, I know you like more than two days, but I've heard a lot about you from my dad. And I want to ask you, you have 18 bestsellers. And I know what was your motivation.

You told us before during the workshop. And are you ready to make your 19 bestseller? And if you're ready, what will motivate you? And Alan Peace was shocked about that question. He told, oh, my God, this is one of the greatest question in my life.

I've never had this question. And he told to Miron and to whole room that this is the big problem now for him to find motivate inside him to begin to write the 19 book bestseller. And he tried a lot of things.

He already more than 80 years old. He also with the challenge with his cancer when he was 40. So all doctors told him that he should die from like one year and he's still alive.

So he was fight with them. He was changed his mind in everything. That's why he began to become very popular because he changed his mind.

When he wrote his first bestseller, he didn't know about that, that it was very famous. He just wrote because he felt I need to show people what I knew to share with them. And now when he's more than 80, he told that it was the first it was the motivation.

I want to become rich. Then I want to become famous. Then I want to build my business.

Then I want to give my children education. Then I want to build my house. And then that is end of his list.

And now he's told me like, Igor, this is one of the big question now to motivate myself. And also, this is a lot of people in business. They don't they don't tell about that.

But they create new businesses. They create something new to motivate themselves. And if you imagine that everything will stop.

In our world, it can be like this. What will motivate you when your business is stopped? What will motivate you if you can't travel? What you will motivate if you can't go out your home? Great questions. Yeah, that's why people want to create something outside of them to motivate them.

Where it is so important to have it inside. Yes. And I'm trying to show them to give them the right key to the heart to open it.

Yes, to motivate themselves inside. And often when they feel it, they began to understand that the money, for example, and the power they have, it's not about the material world. It's about for the creation, something very useful for the people.

And then began to create something very useful. And this is their motivate to create something new. It's not publicity can be.

It can be for them. I want to share with the people, with the kids. I want to create something for the scientists, maybe for the kids and something very new for that world.

And this is one of the big motivation of that people to create something very useful to that world. So deep. Thank you.

But what has actually brings me to the next question. What has motivated you to choose walking meditations? And you do this not with only 10, 15 people. You have something bigger in mind, right? Tell us more about that.

Yeah, my motivation of walking meditation, for example, more than two and three years, I was made it with only George Spencer meditation. So a lot of people will go together and listen George Spencer voice. And then a lot of people ask me, Igor, please, can you make it? You are ready to make it yourself.

I told I don't want to translate. This is John. This is his meditation.

Maybe some when I will create my meditation. But also on that moment, I didn't recognize that I like jump to my future, which is not exist. Yeah.

So I told myself, oh, I will. I will. Some when I will.

It means like a procrastination. So I don't do and didn't do anything for that. And one of my mentor, when he met me two years ago, he told me, Igor, I know about your walking meditation, what you made.

But this is the time, the right time for you to create your own walking meditation. I said, OK, maybe I will. It's like it's a long process.

He said, no, no, no. Remember what you're talking about yourself right now. Today, make the date when you will release walking meditation.

And I back to myself. I said, oh, my God. Yes, it's true.

And I text my team that from 30 days from one month, I will release my meditation. I have nothing on the day. Nothing.

You just make that decision. I just make the decision. And then I just look around what will happen.

Like in my world. And then from three, four days, I have a podcast in my studio with my with one of my guests. And when the podcast was finished, my guys from the studio, the technical guys, he came to me and told Igor, I don't know how it happened, but we have one more hour for you.

If you need studio, you can take it. It's free now. I said, oh, my God, this is the moment.

And I stay alone in my studio. I take the headphones, switch on my music. And in one double, I make the walking meditation.

I close my eyes and I just imagine what I want to make for myself in walking meditation. And I make it for myself. Wow.

With one time. And then my team create a special music for that. And like we was from the 30 days it was ready.

And now my like not my dream. Yes. And right now I'm thinking, yes, I manifest state.

I also do the action. I want to make walking meditation here in Dubai with more than 1000 people. Why here in Dubai? Because the sheikh also Muhammad told that he wants for the for his people here in Dubai, the life here, not tomorrow.

Yeah. Because a lot of people ask him, the sheikh of Dubai. Yes.

Why you like build so, so fast? Why you want to be so fast? And he answered because.

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